10 tips for managing screen time with kids

Balancing technology use in children's lives is crucial for their development and well-being, and while technology can definitely be beneficial having breaks and clear rules around screen time is still really important.

1. Set Clear Limits: Establish daily or weekly screen time limits based on age and ensure these rules are consistently enforced.

2. Create Tech-Free Zones: Designate certain areas of the home, like bedrooms or the dining room, as tech-free zones to encourage face-to-face interaction and better sleep habits.

3. Model Good Behavior: Children often emulate their parents. Demonstrate balanced tech use by limiting your own screen time and prioritizing offline activities.

4. Encourage Alternative Activities: Promote physical activities, hobbies, and reading to ensure children have a variety of interests beyond screens.

5. Use Technology Together: Engage with your children in their tech use by playing educational games together, watching age-appropriate shows, or exploring new apps. This helps you monitor the content your child is seeing and encourages shared experiences.

6. Educate About Online Safety: Teach children about the importance of privacy, the risks of sharing personal information online, and how to recognize inappropriate content or behaviour.

7. Implement Parental Controls: Use parental control features available on devices and apps to monitor and limit what children can access online.

8. Balance Educational and Entertainment Content: Ensure a good mix of educational apps and content with entertainment, promoting learning and development alongside fun.

9. Set Tech Curfews: Establish times when devices should be turned off, such as during meals, family time, and at least an hour before bedtime to reduce blue light exposure and improve sleep quality.

10. Encourage Social Interaction: Facilitate in-person playdates and activities that encourage social skills and interpersonal communication.

By implementing these strategies, parents can help their children develop a healthy relationship with technology while also giving you a well-needed break. While still balancing its benefits with the importance of offline activities and interactions.

How to budget

Effective budgeting is essential for managing finances and achieving any financial goals you may have. Once you have got the hang of budgeting it is so easy to continue and to stick to it but how one person budgets may not work for you so it may take some trial and error to find the perfect fit for you and your family. 

Below I have listed some tips to help you on your budgeting journey and at the end I will talk about what I do to manage my budget.

1. Track Your Spending: Start by tracking all your expenses for a month to understand where your money is going. Use apps, spreadsheets, or even a notebook to record every purchase.

2. Categorize Expenses: Divide your spending into categories such as housing, utilities, groceries, transportation, entertainment, and savings. This helps you see where you can make adjustments.

3. Set Clear Goals: Define short-term and long-term financial goals, such as paying off debt, saving for a vacation, or building an emergency fund. Clear goals provide motivation and direction for your budgeting efforts.

4. Create a Realistic Budget: Based on your tracked expenses and financial goals, create a budget that allocates your income to various categories. Ensure it’s realistic and sustainable, reflecting your spending habits and income.

5. Prioritize Needs Over Wants: Focus on essential expenses first, such as housing, utilities, and groceries. Limit discretionary spending on non-essential items until your financial situation improves.

6. Use the 50/30/20 Rule: Allocate 50% of your income to needs, 30% to wants, and 20% to savings and debt repayment. You can adjust these percentages based on your specific financial situation.

7. Automate Savings: Set up automatic transfers to your savings account to ensure you consistently save a portion of your income. Treat savings like any other non-negotiable expense.

8. Review and Adjust Regularly: Regularly review your budget to see how well you’re sticking to it and make adjustments as needed. Life circumstances and financial goals can change, requiring budget modifications.

9. Cut Unnecessary Expenses: Identify areas where you can reduce spending, such as dining out less, cancelling unused subscriptions, or negotiating lower rates on bills.

10. Plan for Irregular Expenses: Include occasional expenses like car maintenance, medical bills, and holiday gifts in your budget. Set aside a small amount each month to cover these irregular costs.

11. Use Budgeting Tools: Utilize budgeting apps like Mint, YNAB (You Need a Budget), or PocketGuard to help you track expenses, set goals, and stay on top of your budget. There are plenty of apps on both the Apple and Google App Store with both free and paid versions as well.

12. Avoid Impulse Purchases: Implement a waiting period for non-essential purchases. This can help you avoid impulse buying and make more deliberate spending decisions while also giving you the opportunity to find the same item cheaper elsewhere.

13. Build an Emergency Fund: Aim to save three to six months’ worth of living expenses in an emergency fund. This provides a financial safety net for unexpected expenses or situations where loss of income could result.

14. Pay Off High-Interest Debt: Prioritize paying off high-interest debt as quickly as possible to reduce the amount of interest paid over time.

15. Seek Professional Advice: If you are struggling to create or stick to a budget, consider consulting a financial advisor for personalized guidance and strategies.

Personally, I worked out what all my bills came to monthly, aiming to budget for my highest power bill and tracking how much on average I spend on groceries and budgeting an extra hundred dollars a month for extra food expenses. once that is worked out I work out how much I have to put aside a week and when I am paid I transfer that amount into its own account and just transfer the money to my main account as I need to pay my bills throughout the month. whatever is left over I split between savings and what I am allowed to spend if needed. i keep track of all my expenses each month as well so I can easily adjust my budget as need be.

With these tips, you are sure to find a way to budget that works for you and allows you to stress about money in the long run.

Side hustles for stay-at-home parents

There are many options available for parents seeking both creative and flexible income opportunities through side hustles. Several of these options can fit around a busy family schedule. Below I have outlined twelve different options but there are so many more out there.

1. Freelancing: Offering services such as writing, graphic design, web development, or social media management on platforms like Upwork or Fiverr allows for flexible hours and project-based work.

2. Online Tutoring: Teaching subjects or languages through platforms like VIPKid, Tutor.com, or Chegg Tutors can provide a steady income with the flexibility to choose working hours.

3. E-commerce: Starting an online store on platforms like Etsy, eBay, or Amazon allows parents to sell handmade goods, vintage items, or drop shipping products.

4. Blogging/Vlogging: Creating content around a passion or expertise, and monetizing through ads, sponsorships, or affiliate marketing. Platforms like WordPress, YouTube, or TikTok can be used for this purpose.

5. Virtual Assistance: Providing administrative support to businesses remotely through platforms like Belay, Time etc., or Virtual Assistant USA. Tasks can include email management, scheduling, and data entry.

6. Pet Sitting/Dog Walking: Services like Rover or Wag offer opportunities to care for pets in a flexible manner, fitting around a parent’s schedule; but you can also offer your services on places like Facebook groups.

7. Childcare Services: Offering babysitting or nanny services either independently or through platforms like Care.com can be a good fit for parents.

8. Renting Out Space: Renting out a spare room on Airbnb or storage space on platforms like Neighbor can generate passive income; if you have the room to do it.

9. Gig Economy Jobs: Driving for Uber/Lyft, delivering for DoorDash/Postmates, or shopping for Instacart can provide income with a flexible schedule.

10. Handmade Crafts: Selling crafts, art, or homemade goods locally at markets or online through sites like Etsy.

11. Online Courses: Creating and selling online courses on platforms like Udemy, Teachable, or Coursera in areas of expertise can provide passive income.

12. Consulting: Offering consulting services in a field of expertise can be done remotely and flexibly, allowing parents to leverage their professional background.

These options allow parents to balance both work and family life; by choosing opportunities that fit their interests and schedules. I will be covering other income avenues in the future of this blog,